'Doing an Adele' - success through failure
I confess that I am a fan of Adele. If my very proper English grandmother were still alive I think she would have winced at the accent but, sorry Nanna, I love it. It strikes me as very real and authentic. She is also short and round like me and gets away with it. She does not seem to be obsessed by her appearance or public image. She has a strange wardrobe (although to be fair I have never seen her wear a meat dress like lady Gaga) and no-one talks about it or trolls her in the Twittersphere. She expresses gratitude for her success and gives no hint of a sense of entitlement. So you can see how I became a fan.
On top of that, I’d like to be so famous that I only needed one name. I’d like to do Carpool Karaoke with James Corden (and, before you delete me from your LinkedIn contacts, you need to know that Adele’s episode has had more than 147million views – and yes, 10 of them are mine!). Stay with me, I am about to make a serious point here.
Working in Paris these last few weeks I was finally in the right time zone to be able to watch the 59th Annual Grammy Awards live. Adele’s performance included a tribute to the late George Michael. Just as she did during her performance last year, she stopped halfway through and shared with the audience that she felt she was not doing justice to her tribute song and wanted to begin again. Begin again she did and at the end she received a standing ovation.
So here is my serious point. The world has shifted on its axis recently and many of us are troubled by what is to come – this is a recipe for us all to become significantly more risk averse. When we have a low risk appetite we worry more about making mistakes and tend to choose to do nothing rather than making a mistake – and of course for those of us who do a lot of our work in the face of public scrutiny, the fear of doing something foolish is constantly front of mind. It is certainly front of mind for me.
What I take from Adele is that acknowledging a less than perfect performance and seeking permission to deliver the performance differently and better is a recipe for success, not an opportunity for public failure. I am encouraged by her behaviour to reframe my own unhelpful and critical self-talk – acknowledging my commitment to continuous improvement and willingness to learn from success and failure. Thank you Adele.